Chemistry Is a Map Back to You

What mutual attention reveals (+ heals)

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September 2025

You Have to Decide If You Love Yourself Enough to Deal With the Consequences of Being Yourself

Q&A with Happy Endings' Abigail

Sep 3 • 

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July 2025

Notes On Kink

Presence & vulnerability > props & acts

Jul 25 • 

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June 2025

How Do You Know If Your Desires Are Real?

All Fours, hyper-attunement, groups of women

Jun 4 • 

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May 2025

Boys I Made Out With in Eighth Grade

‘90s puberty mixtape, shame alchemy, a little acne

May 12 • 

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March 2025

Wanting Vs. Being Wanted

My first, core desires, sexual self-awareness

Mar 4 • 

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January 2025

If I'm Going to Get Naked With Someone I Also Want to Respect Them

Amy’s Story

Jan 27 • 

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December 2024

Three Books That Changed the Way I Think About Sex

Remap your neural pathways

Dec 31, 2024 • 

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November 2024

Third Place Relationships

Surrogate partners, slippery intimacy, my favorite coffee shop

Nov 29, 2024 • 

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October 2024

Meet the Surrogate Partners

"Sex is just the catalyst for people to come see us"

Oct 15, 2024 • 

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September 2024

This Must Be The Place

Bodies are temporary

Sep 6, 2024 • 

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42

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June 2024

Jesus, Mary Magdalene, and the Sex They Might Have Had

A different trinity

Jun 18, 2024 • 

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