Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Desiree McCullough's avatar

I read all three of these this year. My favorite was the Charlotte Shane memoir because it was real life, and as a women who has delved in ENM dating, there were a lot of interactions I related to with the emotional needs I wasn't aware I would encounter.

I'm probably weird, but All Fours bored me. Then again, I have a lot more freedom than most women along with the good husband. It just didn't seem taboo to me. (I also couldn't justify all that $ going to the hotel room decor project.)

Rejection hit hard and good. I love being led into that darkness. I got bogged down towards the end of the fourth story though.

I learned more about sex and desire from Lisa Taddeo's Three Women. Highly recommend! Again, I'm a sucker for nonfiction.

I'm looking forward to Jamie Hood's memoir Trauma Plot and The Dry Season by Melissa Febos. (Both have Substacks.)

Thanks for sharing!

Expand full comment
Ivy Scotts's avatar

“Sluts” edited by Michelle Tea. It’s a compilation of short stories, non fiction and fiction about sexuality, sex, sex work, and self expression. This really opened my mind up to the possibilities that are out there about how we all experience these things differently and allowed me to feel more open about my own desires, feelings and self expression. It’s graphic but in the most beautiful and profound way

Expand full comment
28 more comments...

No posts