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Congrats on a year!! I just watched "Sweet Sweet Kink" and oh my gosh, definitely feeling all the feels. I love how it shows all the tenderness, connection, and transcendence that kink can bring. Thank you for sharing it!

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Kelsey!! I’m so glad you love it like I do. Yes, it does such a wonderful job of grounding kink in care and connection. That’s what I love about it most, the genuine healing and trust that shines through each of the storytellers.

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Congratulations on a year of amazing writing and community building. I'm so glad you too this step and stuck with it. ❤️❤️❤️

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Baby!!! Love you so much. Thank YOU for supporting me, and for scoring that essay! Let’s do it again ♻️

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I'm prone to fainting too (low blood pressure) and can empathize entirely with how it feels to have it happen in public!

How interesting about the different terms used for various sex acts. I use 'DP' for vaginal-anal double penetration, and 'spitroast' for simultaneous oral-vaginal penetration 🌶️😊

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Ya know, “spit roast” makes sense prose-wise in that context, now that I think about it! Also Tanya, yes — I have WILDLY low blood pressure and know that contributes to things. I often warn nurses when they give me the little arm band thing, “it’s going to be low! Don’t be alarmed!”

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I'd have thought "spit roasting" would be oral + vaginal - perhaps we need a better term for it. And congrats on the anniversary!

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You have it correctly, spit roasting is simultaneous oral and vaginal penetration. Simultaneous anal and vaginal is double penetration or DP.

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This is why Substack is so great- thank you for correcting me Hiro!! I’ve corrected in the post too. Btw this a delightful fact check.

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